it matters no more ,,

this is one movie which i'd recommend .
i dunno bout others but i love this movie .
for every show ,, there's bound to be learning points .
and for this movie it'd be kinship or to be more precise ,,
the relationship between a father & a daughter .
there's this saying that no parents wouldn't love their flesh and blood .
true . but for minority i guess it isn't so .
perhaps replace the parents with parent instead .
i don't mean single parent family but even complete families .
the many living examples in life that i've seen .
well ,, wad exactly is familial bond & love bout ?
in this movie ,, it was bout a self centered guy who thinks that the earth rotates because of him whom got reunited with his daughter which he don't even know existed .
the process by which he grew to recognised and love his daughter was indeed heartwarming .
an egocentric guy who in the end became selfless .
incredible for wad kinship could result to isn't it .
for the most gladdening part would be when Joe actually told his daughter this ,,
" you're the best thing that has ever happened to me "
how nice & sweet . ((:

when was the last time ur dad actually picked you up and told you how dear you're to him .
telling you ' i love you sweetheart '
giving you a goodnight kiss ?

for these ,, i could hardly remember .
it seems like some pleasant yet heart pricking memories .
i've always think that the loss is nothing to me .
something which i could do away with that i could deal with in a nonchalant manner .
i do hope for things to be in that way thou .
i do not wish to take umbrage at the negligence of discharging one's responsibilities .
hatred is a definite no no to me now .
its just too heavy a burden for the heart to hold .
your ego makes it unbearable even to me .
nothing can be compared to it i suppose .
we can be within a breath's distance but it definitely seems like worlds apart .
i make the happenings in my daily lives a lesson learnt .
for the certain events , its definitely a very valuable lesson .
as a minor to you i wouldn't say i'm absolutely capable of discerning right from wrong .
however ,, this time its clear and unambiguous .

well ,, i wouldn't long for the vague past anymore .
whats done can't be undone .
nothing more can accomodate for the pain inflicted on one .
at least i have a future to reconstruct my life .
thats what i'm most looking forward to , my future .
maybe i shd thank the great events that has caused an impact in my life .
thats what made me realised what i truly want in life .
made me more independent on oneself & have a set of own goals to strive hard for .
even without you , i could still be somebody .
not just what i want you to know but anyone else who thinks i'm nothing .

time would reveal , definitely .

Knowledge is essential to conquest;
only according to our ignorance are we helpless.
Thought creates character.
Character can dominate conditions.
Will creates circumstances and environment.

-Anne Besant